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中年性愛的協調




  一個結婚12年已38歲的知識男性,近兩年來逐漸感到自己不能滿足妻子的性要求,妻子還沒有盡興,自己就「疲軟」了。為此, 他非常苦惱,他擔心因為性生活的事情而影響夫妻關係。他問心理醫生,為什麼我現在不如新婚姻的時候能力強?為什麼妻子的性要求會 比以前增加?


  還有一對夫婦,20多歲時結為秦晉之好。婚後那些歲月裡,性生活充實且頻率頗高。然而,自從倆人年過35歲以後,丈夫不再用 火辣辣的眼神凝視妻子,每當她吞吞吐地提及做愛時,他便馬上換掉話題。


  如何解釋這些夫妻之間的反差呢?這當中的奧妙在於夫婦雙方臨近中年時,身體狀況、生活方式和性反應均與從前迥然不同,不論男 子還是女子,都要經歷正常身體、心理及性激素的變化。這些變化是漸進的,微妙的,涉及身體所有系統,包括性器官及性慾。只有認識 自己和配偶的身心變化,才能作出相應的調整,保持性生活的質量。


  一般講,隨著年齡的增長,男女性能力和敏感區的分佈會出現「互逆」的變化。女性從新婚到中年前後,性敏感區會從原來的遍佈全 身逐漸集中於生殖器部位;男性往往相反,從年輕時集中於生殖器部位,強調性交,轉變成敏感區向全身擴散因而更重視愛撫。如果雙方 忽視了這種變化,丈夫就可能對妻子的性主動納罕或反感,而妻子卻依然覺得他做得不夠。


  總之,必須認清:1、人近中年,夫妻的性矛盾必定是「一個巴掌拍不響」;2、任何一方的性主動都不表明屈從對方,而是在努力 爭取共同的幸福;3、妻子的性主動同樣有益於自身,有助於克服自己身上同樣存在著的內在矛盾。基於這樣的認識,夫婦雙方才能夠持 續享受性愛的幸福和快樂。

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Who in sexually transmitted diseases, both husband and wife do not have some history of sexual promiscuity. Disease before they have not been to the hospital for medical treatment, thus excluding iatrogenic infection; they do not have a business trip, not sitting on public toilets, have not been to the swimming pool ... then the root cause of them come from? The analysis, their hands may be the culprit of infectious disease.

Life, many couples do not wash their hands before bedtime habits, had read the public press, or a point over money, hands may be contaminated with pathogens, sexually transmitted diseases, sex Shiyou hand to touch themselves or each other's genitals. In this way, the couple are likely to become victims of sexually transmitted diseases.

Sexually transmitted diseases, genital warts are recognized in the second generation of sexually transmitted diseases, the Ministry of Health has listed it as one of key prevention and treatment of eight sexually transmitted diseases. Disease caused by human papillomavirus, genital lesions occurred in the junction of skin and mucous membranes, such as the penis coronary sulcus, women around the vulva, large and small labia and perineum, etc., were plexiform, flat and verrucous , cauliflower hyperplasia, the patient often due to genital itching or their own touch from a small increase in biological treatment. Some experts believe that the virus contaminated the surface of the wide, far more than the hepatitis B virus. When people go to hotel parlor, push the glass door, rang the bell, press the elevator switch, and others, shaking hands, look each other delivery to the card, the virus can be able to stick to the hands. Especially the toilet and off the tap, but the possibility of contracting sexually transmitted diseases, many of the pathogens. In addition, the bus handrails, telephones, money, newspapers and so may be accompanied by public STD pathogens. If you do not wash their hands will go to bed intercourse, the potential danger is obvious.

It is particularly worth mentioning is that perineal warm, moist, sexually transmitted pathogens is the ideal paradise. Once they are off the foot here, they will quickly set up camp and reproduce. Therefore, be sure to hand wash before intercourse, so the role of the media because of the hand, the sexually transmitted pathogens inoculated on their own or other's genitals, resulting in the couple complained about each other, mutual suspicion, and even lead to family discord and dispute after another.
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